Higher Love
Emotionally Focused Therapy Intensive for Couples
Transform your relationship in just 1-2 days with evidence-based therapy that creates lasting change
What is Higher Love?
Higher Love is a condensed, retreat-style format of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples who need clarity now — not months from now. It's built for partners who are facing a specific problem or an important decision and want to understand what's really happening between them, without stretching the process across endless weekly sessions.
Weekly counseling can feel slow and open-ended. You show up, talk for an hour, and leave still unsure when anything will actually change. Higher Love compresses that work into one or two focused days, so you get real movement — and real answers — on a timeline you can actually see.
Using the proven tools of EFT, we get to the core attachment needs driving the conflict and make sense of the patterns keeping you stuck. You leave with real insight into what's happening between you — and the clarity to move forward with confidence, whether that means rebuilding the connection or finally understanding where you stand.
Why Choose Higher Love?
Evidence-Based
EFT is one of the most research-backed couples therapies — about 90% of couples improve significantly, and 70–75% recover from relationship distress.
Expert Care
Licensed professional counselor with over two decades of experience and advanced training in attachment-based therapy and trauma-informed care.
Months of Progress in Days
Move through what usually takes months of weekly therapy in just one or two focused days — with insight and momentum that last.
Is This Right for You?
Higher Love is for couples at a turning point — facing a specific problem or a decision that can't wait for months of weekly sessions.
Common Challenges We Address
✅ Persistent conflict and communication breakdown
✅ Emotional disconnection and loss of intimacy
✅ Betrayal, infidelity, or trust ruptures
✅ Wondering whether to stay or move forward
✅ Difficulty recovering from past trauma
✅ Loss of friendship and companionship
Your Goals
✅ Understand and express what you each really need
✅ Break out of the same painful arguments
✅ Rebuild emotional safety and trust
✅ Work through past hurts and betrayals
✅ Restore emotional and physical intimacy
✅ Use a discernment-informed process to decide your path forward
Schedule
Every couple starts with Day 1 — a complete experience on its own. You leave with your Relational Language results and real clarity on what's happening between you. Day 2 is an optional deeper dive for couples ready to do the work and map their next step. Choose a one or two-day format based on your needs.
Clarity & Insight • 9:00 AM – 12:00 PM
⏱️ 9:00 - 9:45 AM
Joint intake and what brings you here
⏱️9:45 - 11:15 AM
Individual sessions + Relational Language Quiz (while one partner meets with me one-on-one, the other completes the Relational Language Quiz and receives their results — then you switch)
⏱️11:15 AM - 12:00 PM
Joint discussion of your Relational Language Quiz results
Deeper Work & Your Path Forward • 9:00 AM – 12:30 PM
⏱️ 9:00 - 10:30 AM
Individual review of your Trauma-Informed Insight Report
⏱️10:30 - 11:45 AM
Joint discussion of your relational dynamics
⏱️12:00 - 12:30 PM
Integration, summary, and your path forward